Bob Schaefer

A shining role model of selflessness, Robert Schaefer had an infectious spirit and a zest for life that could be felt by all who were near. He worked hard and encouraged others to do the same, knowing that nothing in life comes easy. Bob was a devoted family man, and even the simplest moments spent surrounded by loved ones was time well spent. His willingness to humbly serve those around him allowed him to impact countless lives for the better. Life will never be the same without Bob here, but his timeless legacy will be carried on forever in the lives of those who follow in his footsteps.

The late 1940s were some exciting years to be living in the United States of America. Following the end of WWII in 1945 just a short time before, the world was finally beginning to find some healing. Here at home, the economy was thriving, and the historic baby boom was underway. It was during this influential time that Bert and Virginia “Ginny” (Lauwers) Schaefer of Fort Sheridan, Illinois, were happy to announce the arrival of their firstborn son. Born on June 12 of 1947, Robert Charles would eventually become an older brother to his five younger siblings, John, Ron, Lou, Chris, and Tom.

Most of Bob’s childhood was spent in Capac, Michigan. His mother had polio when he was only three and used a wheelchair, placing a lot of responsibility on Bob’s young shoulders to help care for his siblings. Even as a boy, Bob rose to that challenge and did everything he could to be an amazing big brother, even buying them Christmas gifts one year. The Schaefer family lived next door to their grandparents, Grandpa Charlie and Grandma Emily Lauwers. Bob loved his grandpa’s tractor, “Nellie Bell,” that would one day be passed down to him. He did odd jobs around town to earn money, mowing lawns and helping at Jolly Jim’s Grocery store. Bob was an Eagle Scout and held himself to a high standard, growing into a wonderful young man.

As a teenager, Bob attended Capac High School. He played varsity football for four years, as the center. Bob was fortunate to begin dating the girl who would forever hold the key to his heart at 17. Her name was Elaine Czachowski, and the two took many classes together, including Latin. Bob would also try to cheat off of her math homework. From the very first moment, he was smitten. His mom wanted Bob to date other girls in between taking Elaine out, so he would invite people over to bake fruitcake or cookies just so he could get to his next date with Elaine. Her sweet nature and evident love for Bob quickly won his mom over. The couple went to prom together, and Elaine wore a blue dress to match Bob’s eyes.

Following their graduation from Capac High School, Bob and Elaine both went on to pursue further education. He went to St. Clair Community College while Elaine left to attend school in Detroit. Since long-distance calls were very expensive at the time, Bob and Elaine exchanged letters to keep in touch. They signed their letters “eber and eber,” and they would go on to hold each other to that promise. With a desire to spend the rest of their lives together, Bob and Elaine were married at St. Nicholas Catholic Parish in 1968. The newlyweds settled down in an apartment in Warren before moving to a farmhouse in Riley Township, Michigan, and later built a home in Capac, Michigan, where they began building their family.

Out of high school, Bob attended community college for a time before setting his sights on becoming an apprentice at General Motors. He became a metal model maker and began carving out his place in the world. In the 1980s, Bob made the decision to return to school. He earned his bachelor’s degree in management from Central Michigan University, all while working full-time and pouring into his family. Bob spent the majority of his career serving as a supervisor at General Motors before medically retiring in the mid-1990s.

Of all the things Bob loved in life, there was nothing he treasured more than his family. He and Elaine were overjoyed to welcome their two children, Jason and Amanda, into their hearts and home. Bob thrived in his role as a father, and he instilled in his kids the importance of hard work and kindness. He and Elaine were a team when it came to raising their children in the family home in Capac, and he always had her back. The Schaefer family enjoyed spending time at the family cabin in Oscoda, Michigan, which Bob and his siblings took great care to maintain. Christmas was always a massive celebration.

Later in life, Bob was thrilled to become a grandfather to Madeline and Alex. He adored his grandkids, and they brought so much light into his life. Bob loved taking them down to the catfish pond to feed the fish with food from a Folger’s coffee can, teaching them to ride the lawnmower, and building them all kinds of gifts, everything from doll furniture and jewelry boxes to a desk that he built with Alex. In 2012, Bob’s family also grew to include two step-grandchildren, Brie and Bennett. Bob’s arms were immediately open, showing his warm, signature brand of love. He was an uncle to several nieces, nephews, and great-nieces and nephews. Bob considered himself deeply blessed, wealthy beyond measure, to have so many loved ones.

A skilled woodworker, Bob was a handyman through and through. He built many pieces of furniture over the years, such as birdfeeders, cradles, bookcases, bathroom vanities, and so much more. Many hours were spent in his workshop, pouring over his projects. Bob could work on additions on homes, cars, and yards as well. He had a gentle heart for all creatures, including the Jack Russell terrier that showed up on his doorstop. Bob and Elaine named her Annie, after the little orphan Annie. She would lay over Bob’s shoulders like a scarf, completely at home. Bob was known for his signature saying, “Don’t take any wooden nickels.” When asked how he was, he would always let others know he was “simply amazing.”

No one could meet a man like Robert Schaefer and leave unchanged. He was a constant source of quiet strength, no matter the circumstances, and he faced every obstacle that came his way with his head held high. A devoted brother, husband, father, and grandfather, Bob always made sure to hug his loved ones tight. His selfless nature will continue to be an inspiration to all. Though Bob is already so missed, he leaves behind a priceless collection of memories that friends and family will forever be able to hold near and dear to their hearts. Rest well, Bob, and thank you for all you’ve done.

Please join us at a Life Story Service on Saturday, November 29, 2025, at Betzler Life Story Funeral Homes, 6080 Stadium Drive, Kalamazoo (269) 375-2900 with services beginning at 11AM. A reception will follow in the Life Story Center where food, drink, and stories will be shared.

Celebrate Bob’s life online by sharing your favorite stories and photos on his dedicated webpage at BetzlerLifeStory.com.